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The Client/s

Can you relate to any of these statements?

 

Singles

 

  • l fear that I’ll be repeatedly hurt by love, so I avoid taking any risks or moving closer to anyone

 

  • I’m single and feel lonely. I don’t think I’ll never find a ‘good enough’ relationship

 

  • I feel frustrated that I keep making the same relationship mistakes over and over again, but I don’t know how to stop

 

  • I feel scared and distrustful whenever I get close to someone, so I pull away and keep my distance

 

  • I think I’m better off single, alone and lonely than to feel the pain of a bad relationship again

 

  • I am terrified that I will never love someone or that no one will ever love me

 

  • I feel so scarred by my previous relationship that I have decided that I just don’t ‘do’ relationships

 

  • I feel devastated that my partner has left me and I don’t understand what happened and where I went wrong

 

  • I just can’t let go of past relationship hurts and I don’t let anyone get too close

 

Individuals in a relationship

 

  • I’m miserable because I don’t know how to communicate so that my partner can really hear me

 

  • I’m ambivalent about my relationship and considering leaving my partner. I need to make a decision

 

  • I’m constantly angry and picking a fight with my partner and I don’t know how to stop

 

  • I feel afraid because I think my partner is going to leave me

 

  • I withhold love and sex from my partner to punish them for all the past hurts I’m carrying

 

  • I’m feeling lost and alone in my relationship. Something has to change, but what?

 

  • I’m sexually attracted to other people and I’m scared I will act on these feelings and hurt my partner

 

  • I’m afraid I am beginning to repeat the terrible relationship my parents had

 

  • I’m so frightened to be alone that I smother my partner and it’s driving him/her crazy

 

  • I feel insecure, clingy and jealous of my partner and can’t trust him/her

 

  • I can’t bear to be alone, yet I’m pushing my partner away

 

  • I’m constantly cheating and lying to my partner and I don’t understand why

 

Couples

 

  • We are so sick of the pain of constant bickering and never-ending arguments about things that never get resolved

 

  • We have ongoing anger or resentment towards each other that we can’t seem to manage

 

  • Our sexual needs don’t get met and we struggle to talk about sex

 

  • We don’t know how to ‘fight fair’, so we are often blaming, criticizing or attacking each other

 

  • Our relationship is at a crossroads. There is no joy anymore

 

  • We struggle to communicate about the smallest things and often end up feeling miserable after a huge fight

 

  • We feel growing resentment and contempt that means we shut each other out for long periods of time

 

  • We can’t stop fighting because one of us wants to have children/be married and the other doesn’t

 

  • We are struggling to decide whether to end this relationship or work on it

 

Couples in a positive relationship

 

  • We have a good relationship and want to make it even better!

 

 

Are you ready to move out of relationship pain?

 

If so, contact me today on 07956 466 393 or email me rvcounselling@gmail.com to set up a FREE, confidential 10-minute phone consultation 

 

 

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